Helluva Party for a helluva man..

This weekend we finally had my hubs graduation party. It was such a blast. Everyone came over, and we had tostadas and tacos. Also some delicious tamales.Not cooked by me, My mom had that job. I decorated and my father in law provided us with endless beer for the masses. I'm really getting into entertaining. I'm drawn towards details. Once we  own a home, I see us throwing tons & tons of parties. For now we shall throw our parties at my mother in laws huge backyard. Anyway the point of the party was to celebrate my husband, and that was achieved. He seemed so happy, all his friends made it. They seriously are the best. He is so lucky to have them, and vice versa. I came along when he was finishing his first year. I remember him failing a couple of classes that semester. (Ha ha ....) We had some great times. We still do, just different. Congratulations to my dear beloved. I am extremely proud of him. He's now talking about going back and getting his Masters. I will be here sitting next to him as he does his homework next time, and when he's crabby about going to class. That's what we wives do : ) at least the good ones.

love (tmi)

These last months have flown by.

Lately I've felt closer to my husband than ever.

I truly love him. Even if he rarely allows me to take pics of him.

Update on transitioning back to crib.

NOT happening.

So we've had to be creative with our "fun".

We usually go on the floor or the couch.

We used to move L to his crib but that only got us an hour or so.

Needless to say spontaneity is not our thing.

But we need to keep the romanticism alive.

I don't think it should be all up to the husband.

I look forward to many years of crazy nights.

Maybe one day we shall have our bed all to ourselves 

For now we'll share it w/ our crazy boy.

How i told my husband

Even though I'm still feeling pretty elated of sharing my status with umm probably no one reading I have to keep up with it and more posting about our family dynamics. My husb is an American citizen, He's in fact a mutt though.He has some Irish-Polish blood and some Mexican in him, fifth generation so no Spanish. We dated for for about 6 months before i told him about my status. I mean, you really don't go around saying this stuff!. He was my boss, so if it didn't work out I didn't want to get fired so i kept it a secret, until i knew he was the one for me. I broke the news to him over what else, a text.! He couldn't  believe it, "But your so Americanized " he added. Of course this didn't change how he felt about me, he actually got really protective and I drove less and less.We always joked how I was opportunistic gold digger and was marrying him for his money(we're broke lol) but more importantly his status..ha! You'd be surprised how many people actually marry for this specific reason. I have a friend who only dates citizens, it's part of the culture. Growing up at least in our household I always heard "You better marry a citizen" is this crazy or what.? Actually, I once had a guy I was dating (he's white) ask me to marry him! honest to god!! just so i would get my visa and go to school. He was such a sweetheart but I couldn't do that. To me marriage is a sacred, the vows I exchanged with my love mean the world to me and i hope to be with him for life!. So we will begin tackling this pesky situation slowly, and hopefully I get my residency and then my citizenship.